I think there might be a tendency with some manosphere people to mirror angry feminists in attitudes towards the opposite sex. The tendency is “Man = good, woman = bad” and “they have it so good and easy while we suffer a lot”. I won’t deny that more consideration is given to women in the west, and all kinds of reforms are made in their favor (to “balance out” the inequality which must be due to oppression as they say), but playing “Which sex is the bigger oppressor &more evil” is annoying no matter who does it.
Another thing I noticed is how some guys mirror the very women they hate listening to. They set up moral double standards. If a wife drinks and spends her man’s money, she’s the bitch and he needs to leave her and not leave her with any money. If the husband drinks away her money, he did it because she got fat or was too uninterested in his problems. If a husband, in attempt to make his wife have sex with him again, makes himself hotter and starts being attractive to other women, he’s doing the right thing and just trying to save his marriage. If a woman does the same to make her husband take more care of himself (join a gym), she’s playing a whorish game. These two examples of moral double standard are real.
Another great way to mirror the worst of feminists is to find misandry everywhere in movies and songs, just the way this girl found misogyny is Christmas songs:
Sure some movies and songs contain misandry or misogyny, but the moment you start seeing it everywhere, you lost your sense of humor.
(Btw, I value places where men can be as angry as they want about all these issues, I don’t want them to ever disappear. The issue is not angry words, but turning into a person no better than the amoral enemy you hate).
I think I might even see why many men would agree with feminism and even become male feminists. Because they like women and sometimes feel protective of them, and want to earn their affection. They might hear them complain about inequality and feel bad for who they think are virtuous, beautiful creatures. And maybe they hear of how badly they’ve been treated by other men, and then want to prove that “they are not like the others”. And they might from that moment think that women are more morally good than men in general. This type of thing can happen to a woman reading MRA sites and when listening to betas complain on PUA sites, too. But don’t do it – it’s like feeling sorry for a group that hates you and trying to join their club. You’d be as repulsive as a male feminist, apologetic for the rest of his gender, whom female feminists won’t even fuck.
So after thinking about all this, I would recommend both men and women to be Team Truth and Justice, rather than Team *some gender*. That should be obvious, of course, but judging by what I read, it’s not to everyone.