…Hold on a minute. Average male SMV (that is, SEXUAL market value) is NEVER above average female SMV. It isn’t how the sexes work. When it comes to sex, women, on average, are the ones with the goods, at ANY age. If male average SMV was higher than female average SMV above the age of 35, then
1)Prostitution would reverse itself – men would sell, and women buy
2)Women over 35 would have a hard time getting laid, and the only thing men over 35 would need to get laid, is to “just be there”
3)Women who get laid a lot after 35 would be considered skilled players.
That is simply not the case.
If we’re talking about raw SMV, and not MMV (marriage market value) or RMV (relationship market value), then a male 7 and a female 7, despite having the same name, do not have the same SMV. He is a 7, and she is more like a 700.
Considering all this, I don’t understand why people in the manosphere keep repeating nonsense like “Relationships are most stable when his SMV is two points higher than hers” or that the SMV graphs intersect after 30. It’s obviously untrue. You can believe in this, and at the same time insist male and female sexualities are different and lead to the stud/slut dichotomy.
However, I think that men’s MMV or RMV probably does rise above women’s after a certain age. Then you can make statements like “Relationships are stable when his RMV is two points higher than hers”. It won’t be wrong.
For the longest time, I didn’t want to say this, in fear it will discourage men. But I can’t stand any more dishonesty, and don’t think it will be all that discouraging. I mean, it’s a fact that for women, getting laid is easy (on average), and hard for men (on average). It’s the source of the stud/slut phenomenon. It’s not some big blow to any man’s ego to admit women are the gatekeepers of sex. Also, despite overwhelmingly large SMV, women have no use for all that sex they could be having with everybody who offers himself. They don’t feel they are above a man, just because they can have sex with 1000s of men, and he can only have sex with 5 women per year.